Mistress / Domination

From light spanking to severe punishing.  I have a range of tools to ensure you leave with Sandy’s mark on you. If you prefer not to be marked, please request this at point of booking.

• My Hand
• Flogger
• Paddles (Leather and Wooden)
• Canes
• Tawse
• Horse Whip

At the bare minimum (pardon the pun) you will be leaving here with a red bottom.  More severe punishments and correction can leave deeper colour marks such as purple/black.  The cane will welt the skin and leave raised marks and bruising. These markings tend to hang around for anything from 3 days to 2 weeks.

The ultimate female domination. Having your Mistress plunge into you with a carefully selected range of toys. I have prostate vibration toys and a large selection of dildos to pleasure you. I have a leather sex swing, and a pegging bench waiting for you. Having both pieces of equipment enables me to make sure you leave here feeling full, and possibly a little bit stretched. How big can you go?

Mistress has a sharp tongue to whip your ego into shape. I can make you feel very insignificant and subservient verbally. If it’s physical humiliation you are looking for, look no further. I have hoods, gags, collars, leads, lingerie and more to make you feel like a complete sissy. I frequently have chores around the house aswell and I am not afraid to delegate. I hope you take your sissy duties as seriously as I take my rrole as a mistress.

Laying beneath Mistress as she releases her golden juices all over you. For this practice I have a wet play mat, a toilet box or you can lay in the bath. Nobody leaves without being fully covered so choose wisely. The toilet box is for your head. This option is a little more claustrophobic and the flow will only go over your head and face. The wet play mat will see you completely covered from head to foot, as will the bath.

I have a St Andrews cross, with hand, neck and feet restraining rings. I use a selection of bondage ropes to perform hog ties, and shibari. I do not offer suspension Shibari.

This can be clothed or unclothed. I use my bottom to prevent you from breathing properly, I use cues to establish when you need to break from the sit. Face sitting is a form of Breath Play, it can feel claustrophobic  The feeling of knowing I am completely in control is the turn on.

For those that wish to be overpowered by an elegant yet incredibly strong  woman. I will pin you down with commonly known wrestling holds such as the school girl pin, the crab and variations of scissors. This service is for men who are turned on by strong muscle women, or for those who simply want to try it out. I welcome complete beginners to weaklings who have always been meak and mild.

**Disclaimer – I am not a professional Wrestler. Please do not actively wrestle me with intent to win.

As it says.

I use cock rings, my nails, my grip, pinwheels, electrics, wax, weights, slapping, squeezing and more to entertain myself with your pathetic manhood. This is hands down one of my favourite services to provide. I just love watching you squirm in fear that you may never be the same “man” again. Trust me though….. what could possibly go wrong?

How hard I go will depend on how much you can take.

This is definitely on the more sensual side of my domination services. I use body wax candles,   which can be used on ALL parts of the body including the anatomy.  Excessive hair will need a little more rinsing post wax. Oil is used prior to the wax play to prevent it from sticking to the skin or burning.

**Body wax candles burn at a lower temperature than household candles and are made for direct contact with skin. They are paraffin free.

Placing an electrical stimulus directly to the penis. Conductor loops are placed around the shaft and helmet, and Mistress is in complete control. The E-Stim box has several frequencies and intensities. I increase intensity as I see fit. This will test your submission to Mistress.

** E-Stim cannot be used on you if you have a pacemaker fitted, or have any known heart conditions. All practice is below the waist.

If you have a penchant for wearing women’s clothes, underwear or shoes then I would love for you to visit and explore your feminine side. I keep a small selection of oversized underwear and man sized shoes, however I cannot cater for every shape and size, so if you have youre own clothes, shoes or underwear I welcome you to bring these along to your session.

I do keep a large selection of tights, hold ups, stockings and fishnets – so no need to bring those.

I have make up and lipstick to make you into a proper sissy slut.

**At Sandy’s place you will feel safe to explore your inner slut.

In today’s ever-evolving world, more men than ever are curious about pushing boundaries and exploring foreplay with other men. Some prefer to take small steps, while others are eager to delve deeper into the experience. Offering this service in a safe and controlled environment ensures discretion, which is often a top priority.

I have experience working with professional individuals who seek a secure and respectful space for this kind of exploration. If this interests you, please note that additional charges apply, and I’m happy to provide further details upon inquiry. A minimum booking time of 1 hour is required for this session.

 In my experience, everyone has slightly different needs, even when the ultimate goal remains the same. Each session is tailored to suit your personal preferences, ensuring a unique and satisfying experience.

I understand that exploring this side of yourself can feel nerve-wracking and may come with feelings of shame, guilt, or embarrassment. Please rest assured that if this is your kink, you’ll be welcomed into a safe, non-judgmental space where you can fully embrace who you are. Your comfort and enjoyment are my top priorities, and I’m here to make the experience as liberating and pleasurable as possible.