As a successful milf mistress of many years, it has taken a lot of hard work, experience and an open mind to get to where I am now. To become successful this industry, you’ve got to stand out from the crowd, which isn’t always easy to do. I thought I’d share a few of the things I wish I’d known when I was starting out. Hopefully this insight can help other aspiring mistresses on their way to success.
Do Your Research
You certainly can’t head into this industry with rose tinted glasses. Believe me, you’ll see it all and you’ve constantly got to be at the top of your game to become the hostess with the most. There will be times when your clients ask for stranger things than the standard BDSM practices. Though the majority of your clients will want the standard whips and ropes, there are a lot of other fetishes out there. Be sure to research your options to see if it’s something you could or would want to offer. It’s wise to keep your options open as niches mean a whole new market for business.
Have Clear Boundaries
As an established milf mistress, I can say that one of the most important aspects of your role is to initiate clear boundaries. Doing this right from the start will give you something to refer back to, should a client become unsure. You must ensure that everything you’re doing is consensual and of course, legal. Be careful not to blur the lines between sex and BDSM play too much because it can complicate things. You want to offer a specialised dominatrix service, not sex.
Training
Being a dominatrix is not easy. I have heard so many people say, ‘I could do that’ or ‘your job must be easy’. In fact, that couldn’t be further from the truth. What people don’t realise is that being a milf mistress or dominatrix of any kind requires in depth technical skill and training. I’ve had extensive training at the London Dominatrix School, and I am still learning things now. Knowing how to safely restrain or apply the right pressure to cause your subs pain without injuring them isn’t something you can just guess at. When a client agrees to see you, you lead the session and are responsible for your actions. It’s a good idea to have some training as a submissive, so that you can really understand the techniques and processes.
Additionally, part of your personal training involves becoming a pretty good actress! Although your role as a dominatrix will quickly become more natural, there will be times when you have to improvise in character and that can be dauting at first! Learning to stay in character is an art that needs practice.
Emotional Intelligence
An essential part of being a successful milf mistress and dominatrix is the amount of emotional intelligence you are required to have. This is expected in an assertive role anyway, but you must also be mindful of the type of client that approaches you for your services. I have had some clients who have been working though some personal issues and are facing their demons in an unconventional way. Sometimes becoming submissive is a way for them to ‘let go’ in a safe space. Just be mindful of what your client is asking for at the start and don’t be afraid to ask for more information if you feel you need it. You’re not only ensuring their safety but giving them the best experience possible.
Get in Touch
If you’re a sub that needs a good slap or a sissy that needs urgent training, look no further. I am the ultimate milf mistress, providing the maximum femdom experience every time. Contact me today and I’ll decide if you’re worth seeing.
