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BDSM Mistress: The Do’s and Dont’s of BDSM

As the most experienced BDSM mistress in the game, I have tried it all, so I am well versed in the do’s and don’ts of BDSM; let’s just say it’s my speciality. There aren’t any dominatrix’s that have achieved the level of discipline I have reached. When it comes to BDSM, there are so many that just candle handle it. My subs love the sessions I offer, and this is down to the fact that I am mistress who listens to what they want. I combine their desires with my needs to be in complete control, after all, your pain and punishment is my pleasure.

The Pillars of BDSM

BDSM is an acronym for Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism. These four aspects are known as the pillars, or the core, of BDSM and they all play an important role. The domination and sadism relate more to the dominatrix role, whilst the submission and masochism can be drawn upon from the slaves’ point of view. In BDSM, there are no set rules to abide by, but as the top BDSM mistress, I can tell you that having a few pointers in mind will ensure that every session works for dominatrix and submissive alike. Each mistress and slave relationship works differently, but here some important factors to keep in mind.

Do’s

Responsibility: I always keep my high level of responsibility in mind. Although these pathetic subs have come to me because they know they deserve to be tortured, it’s up to their mistress to use judgement during the session. I am purposeful but professional at all times.

Having Limits: Obviously, discussing exactly what my submissive wants in sessions is part of the experience for us both. It’s very important to establish boundaries from the get-go. Whether it’s a clear list of things that they do or do not want to explore or a safe word, limits cover you. They also ensure that the submissive knows exactly where I stand with what I will and will not do in a session.

Creativity: The great thing about being a BDSM mistress is having complete control. What I say goes. So, I always take the time to research new and exciting techniques to make sure my services are a cut above the rest. If my slave is good with it, spontaneity in session is a great way to ensure satisfaction and keep things creative for you.

Communication: Talking to my subs before and after BDSM sessions is a huge part of the services I offer. Transparency is key and is what bring my clients back because they get exactly what they deserve.

Don’ts

Rush: As the most experienced BDSM mistress I would always advise starting new practices slowly. Before the session, you will have agreed on what you want to carry out, even if this is loosely arranged, leaving room for improvisation. Make your movements deliberate, take your time and don’t rush anything. Your session will be intense, resulting in returning subs.

Danger: I wouldn’t advise doing anything you wouldn’t do yourself. Although BDSM is about exploration, consent plays a huge part in the experience, so both dominatrix and submissive must be on the same page to get the most out of the session.

Contact Me

If you’re a sub that needs a good slap, a sissy that needs training or a slave that wants to serve, I am the ultimate BDSM mistress for you. I provide the maximum BDSM milf experience every time. Contact me today and I’ll decide if you’re worth seeing.